5 Critical Questions to Ask Your Divorce Lawyer

Hossein Berenji, Jul 04, 2025

If you’re facing a divorce, you’re likely experiencing a whirlwind of emotions, questions, and worries. Choosing a divorce attorney you feel comfortable with can give you a clear path forward. 

Scheduling a consultation is a good way to learn more about an attorney and decide if they’re the right one to represent you. It also gives you an opportunity to learn more about what you can expect as your divorce unfolds. 

Here are five critical questions to ask a divorce lawyer to make the most of your consultation and feel confident moving forward.

1. What Are The Biggest Challenges You Anticipate With My Case, And What’s Your Level Of Experience?

For some, divorce is highly contentious. Sometimes, certain factors make divorce inherently more complex, including: 

These issues can increase the stakes of your divorce. If you are facing a complex divorce, finding a lawyer with relevant experience is crucial. Regardless of your circumstances, you want to hire an experienced attorney who is acquainted with the unique challenges in your case. 

2. What Strategy Would You Recommend For My Case?

Every divorce is unique, and you need a lawyer with a strategy that aligns with your needs and goals. What worked in a friend’s case may not apply to your situation. 

One of the most valuable things to ask your divorce lawyer is their recommended strategy for your case. 

For example, your attorney may recommend an aggressive approach to protect your interests in a high-conflict divorce. However, an aggressive strategy isn’t always necessary, and it may increase hostility and the cost of your divorce. If both parties are able to communicate and work together, a collaborative approach may be a better strategy for a smoother and less stressful experience. 

Discussing the possible strategies upfront will ensure you and your attorney share the same vision and expectations. Be sure to discuss their strategy for specific concerns you may have, such as spousal support or retaining the marital home. 

3. How Are Your Fees Structured, And What Should I Expect To Pay?

One of the essential financial questions to ask a divorce attorney involves their fees and billing methods. In Los Angeles, divorce attorneys’ rates can vary significantly based on their expertise, reputation, and the complexity of your case. You can expect to pay a retainer, but that isn’t all there is to a fee arrangement

Clarifying the attorney’s hourly rate, retainer, and other costs helps you choose an attorney within your budget. Don’t hesitate to ask about potential extra costs, too. This may include court fees, mediation costs, and expenses related to hiring expert witnesses if necessary.

4. What Can I Realistically Expect Regarding Child Custody And Child Support?

If you have children, their well-being is likely your greatest priority. Understanding what you might face regarding child custody and support is crucial. California courts typically favor custody and parenting time arrangements that give both parents a meaningful relationship with the child. Joint custody is encouraged, but these decisions are based on the best interests of the child

Dozens of factors may be considered when deciding child custody. Child support, on the other hand, is based on a set of guidelines. A formula is used based on each parent’s net disposable income. Factors like special needs, the time each parent spends with the child, childcare expenses, and unique circumstances are also considered. 

You can use the payment estimator from the Child Support Services agency to estimate an amount likely to be ordered. 

5. How Will My Marital Assets And Debts Be Divided?

California follows community property laws, meaning marital property is typically divided equally. However, identifying and dividing assets can become complex. It’s a good idea to discuss your assets and debts during your consultation, especially if your divorce involves: 

  • A business
  • Investments
  • Real estate
  • Substantial debt
  • Inheritance
  • A premarital agreement
  • Hidden assets

Your attorney should clearly explain what assets are community property versus separate property and how debts are typically handled. They can also go over strategies for equitable distribution. Asking detailed questions during the consultation gives you a better idea of what your financial situation may look like post-divorce. 

These important questions to ask a divorce lawyer during an initial consultation give you insight into your case and what to expect. They also help you understand how the attorney manages your divorce and prioritizes your goals. Remember that the goal is to hire someone knowledgeable and trustworthy to advocate for your best interests.

Contact a California Divorce Lawyer Today

For more information, contact our experienced divorce lawyers at Berenji & Associates Divorce Lawyers by calling (310) 271-6290 to schedule a consultation.

We serve all through Los Angeles, Beverly Hills, Los Angeles County, and its surrounding areas. Visit any of our offices at:

Berenji & Associates Divorce Lawyers Los Angeles Office
550 S. Hill Street STE 1467
Los Angeles, CA 90013
(213) 277-2586

Berenji & Associates Divorce Lawyers Beverly Hills Office
9465 Wilshire Blvd #333
Beverly Hills, CA 90212
(213) 277-2586